Life's Little Lessons

Have you ever trusted someone so completely that you stopped checking in on what was happening? Maybe you assumed they’d make the right decisions, follow through, or take care of things the way you would. It feels good to trust — it makes life easier for a while. But when things don’t go as planned, we’re left frustrated, disappointed, and sometimes even hurt. The truth is, we often hand away our power and expect others to use it wisely. The Quiet Trap of Assuming Many of us fall into the habit of believing people will always do things right for us. We expect others to handle things perfectly, so we relax and step back. But here’s the reality: no one can care about your life, your goals, or your well-being as deeply as you do. When we give away too much control — whether it’s decisions, boundaries, or responsibilities — we unintentionally set ourselves up for disappointment. Then when things go wrong, we start blaming others instead of realizing that we gave them the control in the fir...